Tag: Therapy

  • Coregulation: the Heart of Skillful Response

    Coregulation: the Heart of Skillful Response

    This article first appeared in the Mindful Leader blog in December 2020. “If you want to improve the world, start by helping people feel safer.” —Stephen Porges Can you recall a moment in your life when you felt truly supported? Perhaps it was a session with a therapist, bodyworker, coach, or teacher. Maybe it was…

  • 50,000 Life Coaches Could Be Wrong: The Importance of Development in Coaching

    50,000 Life Coaches Could Be Wrong: The Importance of Development in Coaching

    by James Flaherty Entering a six-month coach training program on the suspicion that life coaches are glorified confidantes who charge a lot of money and that coaching is “new-age nonsense,” the author of a recent Harper’s article finds lots of evidence to support her hypothesis. The irony of the piece’s title, “50,000 Life Coaches Can’t Be Wrong,” becomes…

  • How is Coaching Distinct From Therapy?

    How is Coaching Distinct From Therapy?

    by James Flaherty Someone asks me this question every time I do a public talk about coaching. To continue the dialogue, I’m writing this piece. As will quickly be grasped, I cannot resolve the question once and for all. That’s partly because there’s not common ground as to what would constitute a satisfactory response and…